Starting Nursery: A Parent’s Guide to a Smooth Transition
Starting nursery is a big step — not just for your child, but for you too. Whether you’re counting down the days or feeling a little emotional at the thought, it’s completely normal to experience a mix of excitement and nerves.
The good news? With a bit of preparation and patience, the transition to nursery life can be a positive and empowering experience for the whole family. Here’s how to get started.
1. Talk About Nursery in a Positive Way
Even if your child is too young to fully understand, talking about nursery helps them get used to the idea. Share what they might do there — playing with toys, meeting other children, listening to stories. Keep it light, upbeat and reassuring. The Knightsbridge nursery has some tips on their website to help you.
2. Visit the Nursery Together
Many nurseries offer settling-in sessions or short visits before your child officially starts. These visits help your little one become familiar with the environment, meet the staff, and see that it’s a fun and safe place to be.
3. Practise Saying Goodbye
For some children, separation anxiety is part of the process. Practise leaving your child with a trusted family member or friend for short periods. Reassure them that you always come back — and always follow through.
When it’s time to drop off at nursery, keep goodbyes short, sweet and consistent. Lingering too long can make it harder for both of you.
4. Build a Routine Beforehand
Nurseries often follow set routines around meals, naps and playtimes. Try adjusting your child’s daily routine at home a week or two in advance so that mealtimes, nap times and wake-up times are similar to what they’ll experience at nursery.
5. Label Everything!
It sounds simple, but you’d be surprised how many identical coats, jumpers and cups you’ll find in a nursery room. Labelling your child’s clothing, bag, and any comfort items (like a dummy or soft toy) helps staff keep track of belongings.
6. Pack for Comfort
If allowed, pack a small item from home — like a teddy or blanket — to give your child something familiar during the day. A familiar scent or object can work wonders in easing those first-day nerves.
7. Be Kind to Yourself
This is a milestone for you, too. It’s OK to feel emotional or anxious. Trust that your child will adapt — and thrive — in this new environment. Before long, you’ll be hearing all about their new friends, favourite songs, and daily adventures.
Remember: Every Child Settles in Their Own Time
Some children take to nursery instantly; others need a few weeks to feel fully settled. Both are completely normal. Stay patient, stay positive, and don’t be afraid to ask nursery staff for updates or advice. They’re there to help.
Starting nursery is the beginning of an exciting new chapter — and with a little preparation, it can be a joyful one.